a day of gratitude
Today is thanksgiving. Today is a day to give thanks for all that we have and all that was given to us. Throughout our lives, there are times when we find ourselves in such turmoil that it’s hard to find a reason to be thankful. I have had more than my share of suffering and I have spent countless days in dark fear where I wasn’t able to see the positive that was sometimes right in front of me. I knew I wouldn’t survive without the proper attitude. The one way I was able to overcome the overwhelming obstacles that were standing in my way was through searching for something- anything- good that happened to me that day. Each day before I went to sleep, I would take out a post it note and write down a good thing that happened to me that day, Whether it was something as simple as “Today I was able to sit in a chair” or “this morning I managed to eat some cereal”, I wouldn’t go to bed without making sure there was something positive written down on a post it. Pretty soon, my walls were covered in positive post it notes. To be quite honest, I have lived through days that I simply scribbled something down because it became part of my bedtime routine but in the long run, it helped me to change the way I see things and to always to my best at finding the good in any situation. Because I learned that do matter what, there is always something to be thankful for. Last week, when the unimaginable, malicious terror attack occurred, we were reminded once again how precious our lives are. In the blink of an eye, life can be over. No matter how much time passes, trying to make sense of the evil hatred doesn’t get easier. I am still so deeply saddened by such a horrendous nightmare and it’s something that we will never be able to comprehend. What I personally learned from it is a lesson I would have taught myself on those terribly difficult day where I found it very challenging to wake up and spend my little drop of energy on breathing. It was painful and at times felt worthless. But yet, I was alive and I was able to spend another day on this earth. The same still applies. Every day that we are alive and get to live in this world is a day to be thankful for. Yes, it’s true that some days are far more difficult than others but it makes the great days we get to experience even greater. In the bigger picture, the days that are a struggle are the ones that make us tougher and enable us to be stronger to fight through the unpleasant days. Across the ocean, there are a group of women and 26 new orphans who have just finished sitting shiva. Now is when reality is settling in and these families are forced to get used to life without their fathers and husbands. Those Kedoshim whose lives were cut short on a day that started off just as any other, are more of a reason than any to live each day to the fullest, to make every minute of every day count, to get up and fight the battle that is waiting for you because they no longer can. It is the reason we all have to be so grateful to be alive. It was just Rosh Chodesh Kislev, the month that we celebrate miracles and when we learn about finding a light amongst the darkness. I hope that this is the start to many miracles. After months of so much darkness, my hope is that we get to see only light in our lives. And on those days that we find ourselves surrounded by darkness, may we find the light within us to get up, persevere and find the strength to keep burning, keep spreading the light and to keep on living- Because we can. I’m very grateful for reaching this point in my life and so thankful for being granted so many great days after many days were spent in the darkness. Happy thanksgiving! May we be hear only good news in the future